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Blogging AS an Aspie » Driving http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk Matt has Asperger's Syndrome (AS), an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and is writing this blog so that people can gain more of an insight into how people with the condition process thoughts, feel emotions, react to situations and generally handle life. Thu, 19 Mar 2009 12:16:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 So what went wrong? http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/11/21/so-what-went-wrong/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/11/21/so-what-went-wrong/#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2008 10:38:49 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/?p=66 I remember at the start of the year, I posted some New Year’s Resolutions, and I promised to keep to them. As 2008 draws to a close, let’s revisit them, and see the progress I’ve made.

I will update this blog often, I hope to post at least twice per week.

Well, for a lot of this year, I didn’t post at all on many weeks, so I though I’d done really badly with this one! But, I’ve been and looked at the stats, and it seems that so far, this is my 53rd post! So, I’ll have at least averaged more than 1 per week.

In terms of software updating, I’m now more than on top of things. Thanks to the guys over at WordPress, I’m running WP2.7b3, with a theme that can handle all of the new features!

I will learn to drive, I hope to pass both tests before the end of May.

Well, I didn’t pass the test before May, like the original plan was. But, I did pass the theory test in March! Then, after 3 attempts, I passed the practical test (with 9 minors). Thank-you very much Tony P & Phil from BSM for the many hours of lessons (and also thanks to Kelly in the office for managing to fit some lessons into my instuctor’s diary before the 3rd test)! In October, I also did 6 hours of Pass Plus training, which should lower my insurance for whenever I decide to go out and buy a car…

I will save at least a grand, I intend to go to university after my time in a specialist college, and would like to make life easier on myself.

Yeah, erm, maybe not! I haven’t so much as saved a grand as have a grand on my credit card. Oops. Things happened, like needing the best part of

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Driving Test 1 http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/06/22/driving-test-1/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/06/22/driving-test-1/#comments Sun, 22 Jun 2008 22:17:07 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/06/22/driving-test-1/ On Friday, I took my driving test at 0917. I was relaxed, because I got up nice and early, took a shower, and had a good breakfast and a cup of tea. Then, my instructor took me for a short lesson before the test, practicing manoeuvres and a short drive. Then we spend about 20 minutes just chilling out listening to my CD before driving the short distance to the test centre.

The test centre that falls between my hall of residence and college. Literally 50 yards from each. Needless to say there was a few students and staff wandering around, some of who actually noticed me! It was only when I walked into the waiting room of the test centre that I started feeling nervous. But, within a couple of minutes the examiner had entered the room and called my name; his was Russell.

I passed the eyesight test with ease (not that my instructor had got me to read out the plates of the car behind me, of course), and flew through the safety questions quite quickly. Things went downhill from here (and not just the road away from the test centre), because whilst pulling away, I stalled the car. Unfortunately, I also have a habit of coming into junctions rather fast, as the examiner commented at the end, “Can you remember The Hollymere, where I almost joined you in the driving seat!” That was one serious, and the other was for hitting about 35mph in a 30mph limit – I forgot about Ryhope Road, and whilst I did remember quite quickly, it was too late.

However, my manoeuvres were excellent, not a single fault for my controlled stop, turn in the road, or left reverse.

“I’m sorry to tell you that you not passed the driving test today,” come the examiners words at the end of the test. A short debrief with my instructor in the back, and I was finished. Within 6 hours the next test had been booked and paid for. Thankfully I had the “Pass Promise” to cover the cost of the actual test!

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30 minutes http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/03/05/30-minutes/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/03/05/30-minutes/#comments Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:00:16 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/03/09/30-minutes/ Rather quickly, I managed to pass my Car Theory Test! I wasn’t nervous, after all nerves are only likely to affect the outcome in a negative way. I did however, worry a little when I had 50 minutes remaining on the multiple choice questions, and it was asking me if I was sure I wanted to move on. Yes, I was sure, why did the computer have to doubt me?

For the multiple choice questions, I got 49 out of 50 (pass: 43), losing my mark on a section entitled ‘Attitude‘. How appropriate, I mused as I walked back for my next driving lesson. On the hazard perception test, I achieved 56 marks of a possible 75 (pass: 44). My driving instructor thought I may have cheated for the scoresheet informed him that “on the clip with two hazards you scored 5, on 5 clips you scored 5, on 4 clips you scored 4, on 3 clips you scored 3, on 1 clip you scored 1″. Oh well, coincidences…

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Driving Update http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/02/27/driving-update/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/02/27/driving-update/#comments Wed, 27 Feb 2008 15:44:25 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/02/27/driving-update/ I know I haven’t posted on here for a while – oops!

Anyway, Sunderland should be rather fearful, for I have now been on most roads within the city, including some national speed limit roads. And I’ve also been over quite a number of pedestrian crossings, too.

I find my instructor is very approachable, and a really nice guy. He’s easy to get along with, and we have some good small-talk, something Aspies typically find hard. Some of the things I struggle with are roundabouts – this is possibly having to do so much at once (look for gap, anticipate timing, check mirror, change gear, check mirror, signal, select lane, check mirror, stop, change gear, move off, change gear, steer in one direction, steer in the opposite direction, check mirror, give signal, steer in opposite direction). But, with all things, I think a little bit of practice will get me there!

“Born on a Blue Day”

I have recently read Daniel Tammet’s autobiography (as you will have noticed by the link on the left to his website, Optimnem). I found something in there related to driving. Tammet says he has not learned to drive, because in his opinion, Aspies generally find this much more challenging than neurotypicals. This is due, in part, to the need to concentrate on many different things simultaneously. I agree with this statement, generally, but I find it easy to process the different things simultaneously. I would, however, say that it is advisable for Aspies to communicate with their driving instructor at the earliest opportunity about their Asperger’s Syndrome, and particularly how it affects them. They can then adapt their teaching if necessary to help you!

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Police following http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/31/police-following/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/31/police-following/#comments Thu, 31 Jan 2008 12:09:26 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/31/police-following/ My instructor is rather curious about my AS; and that’s a good thing, I’d far rather have somebody ask me about it and how it affects me than read some generic book that is based on the diagnostic criteria in worst case. He was interested in medication, whether people on AS had it; personally, I don’t, nor am I aware of any, but I am aware of a few people with AS & AD/HD and I know they receive controlled drug Ritalin for their AD/HD. We chatted about the supported hall of residence, and he seemed quite shocked when I told him it had 30 staff on the books, with between 7 and 15 on any given shift.

A quick recap of last lesson, and seat change before starting. I completed the cockpit drill whilst chatting to my instructor about mobile phones (as I silenced mine), and how his daughter was attached to hers; I’m attached to mine, I admit, but she puts me to shame! It’s a good thing small talk comes fairly naturally to me, one of the few areas of socialising my AS has not affected.

This lesson, I moved up to third gear, and was expected to use my mirrors before preparing for any manouvre, in addition to checking them every few seconds whilst driving anyway! I also started to handle junctions correctly, stopping for closed ones, and slowing down for all of them; not something I like doing is slowing down. Still, I got used to the idea fairly quickly, that came in the form of following an articulated flatbed, complete with about 25 brake lights fitted to the rear of his cab… The next time I turned the bend to go down the bank, I noticed a white van pull out behind me, but I didn’t think anything of it. My instructor, however, did, “Matt, I would like you to take this corner perfectly, because there is a police van following us!” Now I re-checked my mirror, and noticed the large blue “POLICE” on the front of the vehicle.

As usual, I stalled a few times, once for doing such a stupid obvious mistake; stopping at a give way line, finding the biting point, applying some gas, but not remembering to change down from second to first. I was allowed to try moving off in second from a parked position, and needless to say, I couldn’t manage it! Overall, a very good lesson in my opinion, I definitely saw some improvements.

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First to second http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/24/first-to-second/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/24/first-to-second/#comments Thu, 24 Jan 2008 11:36:51 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/24/first-to-second/ Well, last night was my first time behind the wheel of the car. God help the residents of Hendon I thought as we approached the area where we were to change seats.

The atmosphere in the car was relaxed, and I had raised the subject of my Asperger’s Syndrome within moments of sitting in the passenger seat. This was greeted with a quick question of whether I was ok working 1:1 with my instructor, a welcome surprise given that most professionals just assume it would be. I briefly mentioned the impact AS has on me, for example my social interaction, strange ways of doing things; I even joked about how it mainly affected young lasses that I fancy, given that I’m not too sure on how to go about making friends, or what’s expected of girlfriend/boyfriend relationships. As the young-to-middle-aged male instructor was not a “young lass that I fancy”, we both seemed fairly happy that my AS would have minimal impact on the lessons.

Having spent the last two or three weeks reading through the literature I received with my “Pass Promise”, the instructor was quite impressed at my knowledge of the pedals, main controls, clutch and biting point. It didn’t therefore take him long to introduce me to the cockpit drill or the fine art of moving off and stopping; so much knowledge that I had, I was rather surprised that I moved off, drove along a straight road and stopped the car – all without stalling it. What I did do, was underestimate the sensitivity of the controls, and felt a sharp jolt when I pressed the brake pedal a little harder than perhaps it needed. Oops. And my lovely skill of not stalling the car was soon to diminish, I managed 4 stalls before the lesson had ended, each time was the same cause – I sharply raised the clutch without first applying enough gas.

However, stalling has advantages, as I discovered on my penultimate drive of the evening: just as I stalled, the instructor said “Stop!”, and then asked me why he said it. My response assumed he had anticipated my stall, and so I answered as such. As it was, I had failed to check my right blind-spot, luckily there was nothing in it! When travelling at 10-15mph, I have reasonable clutch control for a driving virgin, managing to press the clutch (just) in time to prevent the car stalling when I stop; I can also use the biting point to slow the car or let it coast as I pull into the side at a snail’s 5mph!

Despite many people telling me that the hardest thing when driving was the gears, I found them remarkably easy. Though greeting the instruction of “keep going straight, use more gas, and when you get to 2500 revs, change up to second” with nervous anticipation, when it actually came to it, I didn’t even think about the gearstick. Clutch in, gas off, hand, clutch out, gas on to same speed. Easy as pie, I didn’t even look at the stick, just felt the pleasing knob at the side of my hand, and pulled back on it gently. Of course, when stopping in second, one has to remember that neutral is up from the position, not down as I kept trying! Then came the stories every instructor must be able to attest: the learners trying to move the instructors knee from first to second, or in this case, the story of one of his female learners attempting to pull his inside thigh up as opposed to the handbrake – one can only assume where she thought the button was located…

As for my great weakness of not always acting upon what I am told, or coming up with my own ways to do things, I’m quite confident I managed this well. Ok, so I used the clutch before the brake when stopping, but at 10mph, what choice do I have? I listened carefully to what my instructor was telling me, and I acted promptly on any advice he gave me.

All in all, a pretty successful 2 hours. And I should hope so too, for 38 quid!

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Pass Promise http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/17/pass-promise/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/17/pass-promise/#comments Thu, 17 Jan 2008 13:42:38 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/17/pass-promise/ It wasn’t long after arriving back at the halls that I was notified of a large package awaiting my collection from a the office. Large package? I haven’t ordered a large package…

Upon further discovery, I find it is the BSM’s Pass Promise box of goodies, including a massive book on the latest set of DSA theory test questions, a book on the practical test, a highway code, a hazard perception DVD, a DVD on a ‘Mind Alertness Programme’ and some leaflet things to give to my instructor. Not bad for the price.

In addition to all of the above, the pass promise says that if you do what is says, and you don’t pass either test first time, then the BSM will refund your fees. But that means taking a mock practical, completing the MAP properly (I ain’t even looked at that yet), studying, and taking as many lessons as my instructor says.

In fact, the only thing I’m nervous about is meeting my instructor. The driving I don’t think will be much of a problem for me – it’s the whole social doo-dah with the instructor that worries me!

So, people have noticed lately I seem to be sleeping in a little. That has a lot to do with me lying in bed for half an hour each night to read another section of my new driving books. My aim is to have read up enough to be fairly confident when I start my lessons next Wednesday. Oh god, the prospects of me making a car move – that should make most of Sunderland very very scared…

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New Year’s Resolutions http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/07/new-years-resolutions/ http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/07/new-years-resolutions/#comments Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:16:05 +0000 Matt http://aspie.blog-it.me.uk/2008/01/07/new-years-resolutions/ I know this is a bit late on, but I did say to myself I would post these online at some point during January.

So, what with New Year coming in, and everybody getting very merry and singing Auld Lang Syne and the rest, I decided I would make some resolutions. And stick to them. So, without any further ado:

  • I will update this blog often, I hope to post at least twice per week.
  • I will learn to drive, I hope to pass both tests before the end of May.
  • I will save at least a grand, I intend to go to university after my time in a specialist college, and would like to make life easier on myself.

You never know, I might stick to these. Keep checking back to see if I do (check the tags for “New Year’s Resolutions”)!

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